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2018 Behind the Scenes

The biggest and most embarrassing blog post of the year.


2018 was an incredible year but I won’t lie… I’m thrilled for this fresh start. Personally, professionally, politically, environmentally and spiritually ‘18 had challenging moments. But the thing that resonates with me so deeply was being able to serve so many amazing couples and their families. I’m so thankful that these sweet SSP Couples gave me the opportunity to capture their wedding days and be a big part of their lives!

It was a hectic, crazy, gorgeous and FUN wedding season. You might never think of me the same after you see these behind the scenes pictures. 😂 OH LORDY THIS IS AN EMBARRASSING BLOG POST. Are ya’ll ready!?

Let’s kick it off with an introduction to my 7 chins.
I swear, if there is a way to show clients the back of the camera without suddenly gaining an entire set of biscuit rolls on my neck, can someone please tell me the secret sauce?! I’m going to just hope that in some way this makes me relatable.

Testing light is a very, very important part of our day and we take it very seriously. Very.

This year brought me some really wonderful adventures and took me back to some of my favorite venues! It was equal parts exhilarating and exhausting.

When there is no wedding planner, I get the joy of explaining to my couples just how to cut their cake! Yes, there are tips and tricks that make that moment go off without a hitch. I bet you may not have known that the photographer directs the couple just how to cut a cake!

Ahhh… behind the scenes pictures. Also known as lots of shots of my right elbow doing weird things.

Caity shot most of my weddings with me this year and oooohhh gosh I am so thankful. You can read all of my appreciation for her HERE. She always loves and cares for my couples like they are her own. It wouldn’t be a 2018 behind the scenes post without a big helping of photos of Caity! She, unlike me, has mastered the vertical-shooting-elbow-tuck.

My role as a wedding photographer often goes well beyond planning timelines, coordinating with other vendors, helping my brides leading up to their wedding day and of course, taking pictures.

You can find me…

  • delivering cocktail hour hors d'oeuvres and cocktails to hungry bridal parties.

  • buttoning up dozens and dozens and dozens of pesky little dress buttons

  • fluffing hair

  • untangling veils

  • pinning on countless boutonnières

  • lacing up corset back wedding gowns

  • straightening out dress layers (aka climbing up inside my poor brides’ dresses. thank you for loving and trusting me, gals)

  • sewing broken wedding dress straps back on

and many, many more things that don’t involve my camera at all.

Shooting wedding parties can sometimes be compared to herding cats. But they always pull it together and show off their best selves for the camera!

For the first time in many years, every single one of my weddings was at a different venue! That means, I was traveling all over to shoot at more and more fantastic venues but I only got to visit some of my favorites once this year!

I totally fell head-over-heels in love with detail photos this year. I put a heavy focus on them in 2017 but I think 2018 was the year of drop dead gorgeous details. Shoes. Bouquets. Rings. Invitations. GIMME IT ALL.

2018 brought me a new experience too! SECOND SHOOTING FOR CAITY!!! * insert some quote about student becoming master but then scratch that because she’s always been a master girlpreneur and my favorite photog, I’m just old * We get a lot of compliments about how well we work together and I am so thankful to work beside her almost every weekend. I forget how much I rely on her until I don’t have her. OOPS. This year I had the blessing of second shooting 7 weddings for her!

I also worked with some fantastic friends in the industry this year! There is nothing better than having a prepared, professional and loving team of vendors to execute your dream wedding day! Like sweet, sweet Taylor who not only did Morgan’s hair but helped us with portraits for 30+ minutes in the freezing cold!

Arguably, I can look my most ridiculous while I’m giving posing instruction but it’s one of my favorite parts of any wedding day or session. I LOVE TALKING ABOUT POSING. Go ahead, ask me how I feel about “belly button to belly button”, the “gentle tilt” or “gimme a big giggle over this way”.

This was the first year that I implemented a same-day slideshow for my couples and their guests. I won’t lie, it can be a bit stressful and difficult to get done in a short period of time but my couples LOVE IT and that makes it so worth it! I love seeing their reactions!

Ah, receptions. The time of the day where we get to hand the reigns over to the DJ’s for the most part and start to play the role of documentarians.

This is super cheesy but pulling together this blog post reminds me of everything that I’ve had the opportunity to shoot and all of the people I’ve had the blessing of working with in 2018… and I’m feeling all kinds of grateful! Even during all of the incredibly hard days, this is truly the best job and I have the best couples!

Cheers to an even better 2019!

Select images above by Cait Kramer Photography, Meghan Baskin Photography, Andrea Krout Photography and Kristin Buckley

An Ode To My Wing-Women

It’s been a long and busy wedding season (and I’m not quite finished yet… one more to go) but I could not have taken on this monumental season without my best gals. I couldn’t write a blog post to explain how grateful I am for these two… in all honesty, words fall short.

My mom, Momsistant Kristin, only worked two weddings with me this year but I was reminded how much I need her and I can’t wait to bring her to more weddings in the coming years. My clients are always so over-the-moon to see her when we walk in on their wedding day. She incredible at observing what people need before they need it, calming the nerves of the mother of the bride (she’s been there!!!) and reminding the key people of their duties. She has helped to fluff trains before brides walk down the aisle, cue processionals and a million other day-of coordinator tasks in addition to assisting with gear, light and shooting.


My mom has never doubted my ability to do this job (at least not to my face haha) and she’s always supported my somewhat unconventional career path - especially considering that she works in an entirely different field. She loves my clients and they love her. She’s probably going to kill me when she sees the few behind the scenes shots I unearthed but I’m so grateful that she was a part of my season!


And then there’s Caity. Caity, oh gosh. I think it’s impossible to follow my story and not also follow along with my favorite six-foot tall photographer. In the midst of a total rebrand, a new website, a ton of growth within her own business, some really important workshops and second shooting for other photographers too, she found time to come along for a crazy season with me once again! There are a lot of fabulous second shooters out there but I’m so grateful to be able to work beside such a talented, fun and loving woman (almost) every weekend.

When she’s not playing with the dogs…


… or trying to blend in with the groomsmen…


… she always shows up with her signature dance move for reception light testing.


Her “what is happening right now” face is on point 24/7.


She is a TOTAL PRO at modeling her own posing.


Of course she always makes me laugh at the most important times of the wedding day where things can easily feel overwhelming and crazy.


She is an A+ professional third-wheeler.


And most importantly, she loves my couples so dearly. She treats them as if they are her own and she doesn’t hesitate to jump in and take on wedding day tasks that are way outside of the scope of photography. I’m so grateful and so lucky.


I cannot wait to share the 2018 Behind the Scenes blog post with you in the new year!! Cheers to these amazing women who keep me sane and are way too good to me. I wouldn’t be half of the photographer I am without them.