wedding photography

2018 Behind the Scenes

The biggest and most embarrassing blog post of the year.


2018 was an incredible year but I won’t lie… I’m thrilled for this fresh start. Personally, professionally, politically, environmentally and spiritually ‘18 had challenging moments. But the thing that resonates with me so deeply was being able to serve so many amazing couples and their families. I’m so thankful that these sweet SSP Couples gave me the opportunity to capture their wedding days and be a big part of their lives!

It was a hectic, crazy, gorgeous and FUN wedding season. You might never think of me the same after you see these behind the scenes pictures. 😂 OH LORDY THIS IS AN EMBARRASSING BLOG POST. Are ya’ll ready!?

Let’s kick it off with an introduction to my 7 chins.
I swear, if there is a way to show clients the back of the camera without suddenly gaining an entire set of biscuit rolls on my neck, can someone please tell me the secret sauce?! I’m going to just hope that in some way this makes me relatable.

Testing light is a very, very important part of our day and we take it very seriously. Very.

This year brought me some really wonderful adventures and took me back to some of my favorite venues! It was equal parts exhilarating and exhausting.

When there is no wedding planner, I get the joy of explaining to my couples just how to cut their cake! Yes, there are tips and tricks that make that moment go off without a hitch. I bet you may not have known that the photographer directs the couple just how to cut a cake!

Ahhh… behind the scenes pictures. Also known as lots of shots of my right elbow doing weird things.

Caity shot most of my weddings with me this year and oooohhh gosh I am so thankful. You can read all of my appreciation for her HERE. She always loves and cares for my couples like they are her own. It wouldn’t be a 2018 behind the scenes post without a big helping of photos of Caity! She, unlike me, has mastered the vertical-shooting-elbow-tuck.

My role as a wedding photographer often goes well beyond planning timelines, coordinating with other vendors, helping my brides leading up to their wedding day and of course, taking pictures.

You can find me…

  • delivering cocktail hour hors d'oeuvres and cocktails to hungry bridal parties.

  • buttoning up dozens and dozens and dozens of pesky little dress buttons

  • fluffing hair

  • untangling veils

  • pinning on countless boutonnières

  • lacing up corset back wedding gowns

  • straightening out dress layers (aka climbing up inside my poor brides’ dresses. thank you for loving and trusting me, gals)

  • sewing broken wedding dress straps back on

and many, many more things that don’t involve my camera at all.

Shooting wedding parties can sometimes be compared to herding cats. But they always pull it together and show off their best selves for the camera!

For the first time in many years, every single one of my weddings was at a different venue! That means, I was traveling all over to shoot at more and more fantastic venues but I only got to visit some of my favorites once this year!

I totally fell head-over-heels in love with detail photos this year. I put a heavy focus on them in 2017 but I think 2018 was the year of drop dead gorgeous details. Shoes. Bouquets. Rings. Invitations. GIMME IT ALL.

2018 brought me a new experience too! SECOND SHOOTING FOR CAITY!!! * insert some quote about student becoming master but then scratch that because she’s always been a master girlpreneur and my favorite photog, I’m just old * We get a lot of compliments about how well we work together and I am so thankful to work beside her almost every weekend. I forget how much I rely on her until I don’t have her. OOPS. This year I had the blessing of second shooting 7 weddings for her!

I also worked with some fantastic friends in the industry this year! There is nothing better than having a prepared, professional and loving team of vendors to execute your dream wedding day! Like sweet, sweet Taylor who not only did Morgan’s hair but helped us with portraits for 30+ minutes in the freezing cold!

Arguably, I can look my most ridiculous while I’m giving posing instruction but it’s one of my favorite parts of any wedding day or session. I LOVE TALKING ABOUT POSING. Go ahead, ask me how I feel about “belly button to belly button”, the “gentle tilt” or “gimme a big giggle over this way”.

This was the first year that I implemented a same-day slideshow for my couples and their guests. I won’t lie, it can be a bit stressful and difficult to get done in a short period of time but my couples LOVE IT and that makes it so worth it! I love seeing their reactions!

Ah, receptions. The time of the day where we get to hand the reigns over to the DJ’s for the most part and start to play the role of documentarians.

This is super cheesy but pulling together this blog post reminds me of everything that I’ve had the opportunity to shoot and all of the people I’ve had the blessing of working with in 2018… and I’m feeling all kinds of grateful! Even during all of the incredibly hard days, this is truly the best job and I have the best couples!

Cheers to an even better 2019!

Select images above by Cait Kramer Photography, Meghan Baskin Photography, Andrea Krout Photography and Kristin Buckley

Our Wedding: Almost A Year Later

Yes, it's been almost a year and I have not, until right now, blogged our entire wedding. That's what happens when you shoot other people's weddings for a living. Yours goes by and you're on to the next one... then you wake up and realize... in just a month you are celebrating one year of marriage! 

I've blogged a little bit about our wedding already including why we got married before our wedding, our music, the FAQ's and walking myself down the aisle but I have never shared the entire day with ya'll here! 

A lot has changed. Since we promised forever, exchanged some bling and got drunk with our friends, a lot has happened. Kyle's grandfather, Sheldon, and my uncle Larry are no longer with us (they appear in a bunch of photos below). What a blessing it was to have them with us on our special day. I don't take that for granted. Many of our friends are having babies (some with each other - you know who you are), some have moved and some have also experienced loss. Looking back through these images as I pulled them together for this blog post just made me think of how quick and precious life is. We are so lucky to be able to have two anniversaries and two chances to celebrate! 

We had anniversary photos taken by my sweet friend, Caity, last week and I'll be sharing those for our wedding anniversary. For our marriage anniversary (if you're still confused... read this...), I'm so excited to share the images from throughout our wedding day with all of you. 

Cheers to many more years!

I want to thank our wonderful friends + the artists and the vendor team that made the day possible: 

WEDDING GOWN: Nicole Miller | CUSTOM ALTERATIONS: Maridadi Couture | BRIDES SHOES: Jack Rogers | GROOM'S SUIT: ASOS | GROOM'S SHOES: Florsheim | FLORALS: everyone deserves flowers. | PHOTOGRAPHY: Melania Marta Photography | ENTERTAINMENT: Soundfactor Entertainment | OFFICIANT: Jared Bailey | LATE NIGHT SNACK: Dutch Country Hand Rolled Soft Pretzels | CATERING: FFF Catering | DINNER SERVICE & LOGISTICS: Louise Soskin + team | MOB'S DRESS: Lilly Pulitzer | VEIL: HoneyPieBridal | BRIDE'S FASCINATOR: Aino Bridal | BRIDE'S JEWELRY: heirloom family pieces | REMEMBRANCE LOCKET: whichgoose | CUSTOM DOG LEASH: My Favorite Hound |  MONOGRAMMED BOUQUET RIBBON: Oatmeal Lace Design | CAKE: Farmhouse Cakes | DONUTS: Duck Donuts | PAPER GOODS & CALLIGRAPHY: custom designs by Savannah Smith Photography | HAIR: Tanya OBrien | MAKEUP: Blush Beautiful 

So, do we celebrate both anniversaries? Absolutely. We exchanged gifts, had anniversary portraits taken by Cait Kramer Photography and in late August we're taking a short trip. In case you were wondering... I got Kyle a brick on the pathway of the SPCA in honor of Butters and he is taking me out to the restaurant where we shared an improptu meal after going to the courthouse last year.  


I can't wait to share more of our anniversary portraits by Cait Kramer Photography next month!